I recently read your column advising grandparents on 
"tough love." It offered advice to grandparents with 
respect to misbehaving grandchildren - those whose own 
parents let them run wild. I have followed your advice, 
and enclose a picture demonstrating the technique I 
employ on my grandson when he just won't behave. They 
do not allow me to spank him, so I just take him for a 
ride, and he usually calms down afterward. 

Sincerely, 

Tough Love Grandma