| The Wooden Bowl
I guarantee you will remember the tale of the
Wooden Bowl tomorrow, a week from now, a month from now, a year from now.
A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law,
and four-year old grandson. The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight
was blurred, and his step faltered.
The family ate together at the table. But the
elderly grandfather's shaky hands and failing sight made eating difficult.
peas rolled off his
spoon onto the floor. When he grasped the glass,
milk spilled on the tablecloth.
The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with
the mess. "We must do something about Grandfather," said the son. I've
had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor.
So the husband and wife set a small table in the
corner. There,Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed
dinner. Since
Grandfather had broken a dish or two his food
was served in a wooden bowl.
When the family glanced in Grandfather's direction,
sometime he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone. Still, the only words
the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or
spilled food.
The four-year-old watched it all in silence. One
evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps
on the floor. He asked the child sweetly, "What are you making?" Just as
sweetly, the boy esponded, "Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama
to eat your food in when I grow up." The four-year-old smiled and went
back to work.
The words so struck the parents so that they were
speechless. Then tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word
was spoken, both knew what must be done.
That evening the husband took Grandfather's hand
and gently led him back to the family table. For the remainder of his days
he ate every meal with the family. And for some reason, neither husband
nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled,
or the tablecloth soiled.
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